What is it?
Beyond self awareness, our world now demands collaborative awareness; how can we do this fast-paced dance without stepping on each other’s toes? The Blueprint of WE is a new way to build, sustain and transition personal relationships with trust and respect in order to have more effortless day-to-day interactions and build resilience into your life. You personally write the document, along with each person in the relationship, preferably at the beginning of the relationship. It captures what draws each individual to the situation, your personal preferences and expectations; and it provides a path back to peace if the need arises. It is often being used to replace or enhance traditional legal contracts. It gives you the power to be the architect of your life, rather than squeezing into pre-established relationship definitions, and then creates the space for a relationship to continually evolve and change to fit the people involved.

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The 5 Components of the Blueprint of WE

1. The Story of Us
Share what draws you to these people and this situation.

2. Interaction Styles and Warning Signs
The “blueprint of me,” how I work best, what I look like on a good day/bad day, and what I might need that I couldn’t ask for in the moment.

3. Expectations
Core values and non-negotiables, the structure you need to create and sustain this relationship.

4. Questions to Return to Peace
A tool to return to peace if the need arises, makes the difficult times shorter and easier.

5. Short and Long-Term Agreements
How long you’re willing to go before you make peace. An agreement of no outright harm, a willingness to keep an open window if the unimaginable happens.

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5 Components of the Blueprint of WE.

The Benefits

• Foundation of Connection and Trust
• Structure for Conversations that Matter - a safe space to say what is most important and meaningful
• Invitation and Support for our “best” selves to flourish in the relationship
• Space for the conversation regarding actions, values and intentions
• Perfect Third-Party Mediator to get through the difficult times
• Process to learn how to support one another on each person’s own terms
• Collective Memory of who we want to be, how we want to interact, and who we want to become

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Creating a healthy relationship with the chatterbox in your head: the "Blueprint of ME"
One of the most important relationships that you can foster is the relationship you have with yourself; you know, that little voice inside your head that can spiral you down or keep you engaged and in the zone? Awareness is the first step to creating and maintaining healthy behaviors, and creating a Blueprint of ME is a dynamic way to work on who you are with yourself, and how you show up with others. Find out more about building the Blueprint of ME to be able to bring your best self to all your relationships. Read more about creating a Document with Yourself.

Personal Relationship Situations Using the Blueprint of WE

• Couples
• Friends
• Families
• Parent & Child
• Relationships in Transition (ex: divorce, separation)
• Communities/Neighborhoods
• Intentional Communities
• Family Businesses
• Parent and Adult Child
• Siblings (Adult Siblings)
• Lovers
• Roommates
• Long-term Houseguest/Renter
• Support Groups
• Book Clubs
• Travel Companions
• Babysitter and Parent
• Adoption Situations
• Foster Care Situations
• Camp Counselor and Campers
• Families in a Hospice Situation
• Community Co-ops
• Future or Potential Partner/Spouse (create the Document as if you are beginning the relationship you are looking to find in your life)

Let Us Assist You in Creating Your Own
Blueprint of WE
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